As a sis-woman who is exclusively heterosexual, I honor you. I feel a connection with you and with all my LGBTQ+ brothers and sisters through this comment.
Your answer to what we all should do about our new racist, sexist, awful government seems to be primarily to gather together and share our pain. I must say, this worked for Gandhi. Perhaps it will work again, here, in this country. Hate and fear have worked well to produce more hate and fear. Perhaps love and courage will work as well to produce more love and courage.