From an emotional point of view, I do not and cannot understand it. From some other kind of view that I cannot name, I do understand it as a ploy by extremely rich people to keep the rest of us snarling and posturing at each other and occasionally injuring and killing each other. It is a successful method to keep all of us, whatever our sexual, political, or any other type of preferences from noticing that those extremely rich people get richer by the day at our expense. These days, trans people seem to bare the brunt of it. It makes me, a 79-year-old White cis woman, sick.