I'm glad you didn't hate or shun men, either Empress, since you had wonderful relationships with a husband, children, and grandchildren. So, 4B is definitely not for you. However, for women who look around them and see nothing but MAGA-hat-wearers and other Trump supporters who post such garbage as "Your Body, My Choice," "Back to the Kitchen," and "Repeal the 19th," 4B may be a viable option, perhaps only temporarily. Most of these women don't "hate" men; they just don't want to be oppressed by them. And while you and I would feel bereft without a partner in life, from what I can tell, 4B girls are not bitter or even lonely. The ones I've seen interviewed seem (at least) to be having nice lives.