Interesting, particularly since I have suffered from trauma. Now, how would I go about growing out of and away from the trauma. What are the steps, exactly? (If you decide to write about the steps , would you mind notifying me that you've done this; I am now following you but am unlikely to see such an article unless you either tag me in that article or comment on one of my articles to let me know you've done it. ) Meanwhile, thanks for doing this writing on a subject that is so important.